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Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 20 Sep 2009, 21:30
by panzermk2wife
Thank you for your kind words SSBiggun

We don't deny he knows about reloading.

It's all the lies about his age claiming to be 39 when in fact he's 33. Which is the same age as my younger brother.

All the LEO & military claims of being all these things and getting all the medals and so forth. Which is a slap in the face to all those who are past & current military as well as our officers past and present..

The lies of his work history ie working for the ATF, being head of a 4 billion dollar project so on & so forth

The stealing of company funds

And the things that hurt the most to me on an emotion level and being a woman it is multiply by millions: the lies just in the past 3 to 4 weeks. Putting a gun to his head, stealing from him, Jay being a former cocaine addict, me being a diagnosed schizophrenic, telling people that all 3 of our children are special needs children and that I am not tending to their "special needs". My children are happy, healthy and very well rounded children. And so many other hurtful lies.

These are the things that hurt me the most. We brought him up here as a friend, made him part of our family and he turns around and completely without batting an eyelash tried to run the company and our family.

Once he opens his eyes and realizes which in my own opinion will not happen he is going to see all his sins. He is one day going to have to answer for these sins. I just wish I could be a fly on the wall when that happens.

I sincerely hope no one expects me to have any sympathy for him, because I don't. I know it sounds cold, but walk in my shoes for a moment. There is no way I will every forgive and forget what he has done to my family. How much my family has lost. How much my children have lost due to his lies and stealing. To me he is dead. Ryan Herle no longer exists in my book. I will hate him for a very long time because of what he did to my family and I know I will have to confess that sin to our priest one day, but that day is not today, tomorrow, not next week and maybe not even a year from now. I think I deserve to hate him for a while.

Sorry for the rant guys, I just I had to get it off my chest because this has been building for months and physically and emotionally I have been drained.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 20 Sep 2009, 21:59
by f3rr37
hammerhands32 wrote:Son of a %#*@^, Mother$%#@&#, peice of @%#$ and then wow. Ive been gobling up his B.S. happily for over a year
For many of us, more than a year, I've been around since 2006 and have taken his word as gospel up until about a year ago.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 20 Sep 2009, 22:16
by RedDog57
satellitedr3ams wrote:we all have lost here. lisa im sorry to hear. better sooner than later tho.

:( :agree:

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 20 Sep 2009, 22:19
by blueorison
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I'm sorry Lisa. I can't wish to understand how you're feeling as a mother and someone who trusted him with your family and I sincerely hope he doesn't hurt you any further.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 05:28
by panzermk2wife
Thanks guys.

I guess he didn't expect everyone to figure out the deceit.

I feel really bad for those here on the forum as well who were duped by his deception as well. It just really boggles the mind.

But as I said we will all be stronger for this hard life experience and we will come out on top as a family here on the forum.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 07:55
by Cyberfly
Thats the thing about being a bullshitter. You can get away with it a lot easier on the internet than you can in real life. You don't have to look someone in the eye in real life. Cops have a sixth sense and he'd have had to try to pull that off everyday in real life, I think he would have been sniffed out a lot sooner.
But its over.
At least, it better be over.
He may have his nose out of joint for it having gone public, but that's his own damned fault for shooting his mouth off. We kept up our end of the agreement far longer than we should have.
I won't go into it, but we had grounds for coming forward sooner than we did. And he knows it.
Ryan, if you do come back in here and read this, know this. I agree with you on one thing. You DO need help. And you need to get a grip on reality. Get this damned chip off your shoulder and quit whining. Pull yourself up and get on with your life. There IS something better out there for you, but you have to man up and be HONEST about it. Be honest with yourself and others about who you are. There's nothing wrong with not being a supersoldier.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 08:04
by apache
Simply gut wrenching. My support and encouragement goes to all those here who have been hurt and damaged by this situation. EA, ( I still support you and your products and wish you success as you move on)

I tend to be naive and give trust until there is a reason not too... LOL I feel gullible as I bought most of the BS he posted.

Live and Learn....... :(

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 08:37
by BIGCAP
"Wow" has been used alot on this thread but the word is appropriate.
Those of us that just had interaction on the net with Ryan will be hurt to some degree but live and in person interaction has really got to just suck.

Jay and Lisa I am truly sorry for what you had to endure and will do so for some time.

This is a sad day for all of us here on the forum. The "family" word has been used on this thread refering to this forum. All families have the one no one wants to talk about. I am sorry now we have one that was so prominent. But the truth is always best and we will move on.

Thank you all who did the work even though you probably did not like having to do so in getting this info out there. We all here appreciate the work you did.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 08:38
by Zhurdan
Wow! I just bought stuff from him not too long ago. Quite possibly the weirdest thing I've heard on the internet in regards to forums.

Good luck to EA in the financial recovery... and regardless of who he hurt, good luck to MO to get healthy. If indeed he is sick.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 09:40
by p99guy
I'm feeling numb (and dumb) I've thought I knew him for quite a while now...sold him a couple of guns without trouble , and gave him my old bullet proof vest when he said he deperatley needed one for employment at a Nebraska police dept.(and didnt have the money for one) I even met him once a couple of years ago..and did'nt have any reason to doubt what he said. I did'nt have the dealings with him that the rest of the staff did in the last year or so....So I wasnt activly comparing one story to the next. And hadnt spoken to him in a while.
So yes, this hit me like a dirty piss'wet mop right across the face to find out he was such a con man/mental case,
and my trust had been taken for a ride and rolled off a cliff. clean words cannot express what i feel right now.
His actions hurt a whole bunch of people and the forum...and the forums reletions with others.

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Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 10:59
by panzermk2
Of all things Ryan has now attacked my children calling them "Special needs children" and that we are neglecting them. While I have nothing against children with special needs attacking mine in such a way shows what a worthless deplorable THING of a human being Ryan has become.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 11:21
by Zhurdan
Panzer,
That does change things a little. I hope Ryan can get some help with whatever issues he may have, but I'd be hard pressed to not go whop 'em up side the head if he was trashing on my kids (if I had any). Just make sure you DON'T in fact go whop'em up side the head. That'll do nothing good for you or your family.

Good luck.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 11:42
by panzermk2wife
The only thing saving Ryan is our 3 children.
And he is too stupid to realize it.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 12:03
by SSBiggun
panzermk2wife wrote:The only thing saving Ryan is our 3 children.
And he is too stupid to realize it.
The only thing saving private Ryan is ? :lmao:
Sorry Lisa I couldnt help it.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 12:04
by panzermk2wife
:laugh:

I'll give you that one

It was funny

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 12:37
by gw45acp
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Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 13:34
by blueorison
SSBiggun wrote:
panzermk2wife wrote:The only thing saving Ryan is our 3 children.
And he is too stupid to realize it.
The only thing saving private Ryan is ? :lmao:
Sorry Lisa I couldnt help it.
:laugh:

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 13:37
by EARS
One liners are usually the best.

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 13:41
by Mister Freeze
Jay & Lisa, I would not have been so kind. It would have been next to impossible not to use some EA on him.

Am I to infer he gained employment under false pretenses? Between that and the misuse of company funds...

He crossed the line when it came to your kids. With 2 of my own, them's fightin' (and dyin') words!

Re: Ryan Herle aka Medula Oblongata

Posted: 21 Sep 2009, 17:03
by panzermk2wife
Here is my response to Ryan

You are the one that broke the agreement between the forum and us when you opened your mouth to others with the lies you have been spewing and you absolutely crossed the line talking about OUR children.

Let's take a trip down memory lane Ryan.

These were taken on Thanksgiving 2008
Pictures speak louder than words

I see happy healthy children having fun with Ryan Herle....

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